DATING TO RELATING FOR MEN – WEEKLY COLUMN– 4/20/09
Dating To Relating For Men- Advice By Mr. L. Rx
Released by AssociatedNews.US
Mr. L. Rx is the author of the popular DatingToRelating.com website and the author of the popular book “Dating To Relating – From A To Z”. Have a question? Send it to Column@DatingToRelating.com and it may be selected for answer in this column. (Sorry all questions cannot be answered.)
Question: Mr. L. Rx, I don’t understand women at all. They seem to be totally foreign to me – from some different planet. How do you go about understanding them?
Answer: We all know there are differences between men and women – mentally, physically and emotionally.
Sometimes we get confused by our lack of understanding of the opposite sex to the point where we want to explain everything with the viewpoint that “Women are from Venus and Men are from Mars.”
It may very well be that men and women have vastly different emotional and mental viewpoints on life, but it is my experience and contention that those vast differences are actually pretty easy to understand.
The real problem in dating and relating is that there are happy Venutians, sad Venutians, angry Venutians, sarcastic Venutians, intelligent Venutians and stupid Venutians. And of course the same goes for Martians.
The point is there is more personality difference and variation between a happy Venutian and a sad Venutian then there is between Venutians and Martians in general.
The failure to understand personality, in general, accounts for more misunderstanding between men and women than the failure to understand the opposite sex.
When it comes to understanding men and women, we all might be a little smarter than we thought.
Be that as it may. There are guys that don’t get the basic differences between men and women, and there are women who likewise don’t understand men. The basic error is to think that the opposite sex thinks like you do, or to get upset when you realize that they don’t.
But that is a whole other topic. Best that you read “Dating To Relating – From A To Z” to get a better understanding of this. But in the meantime start paying more attention to personality. This is where you will begin to understand women. Find a woman with a similar personality to yourself, and you will be amazed at how easy it is to understand her.
Mr. L. Rx
